Wednesday, 27 July 2011

Who cares if you are a nice guy!

Since I am a woman, I firmly believe that it is my job to dispense unsolicited advice...whether anyone wants it or not :)

So this one goes out to the single girls! Yes!  The fact that I run footloose and female members often ask me for advice qualifies me to do this...at least in my own head :)

I have women walking in and saying, "where are the good looking men?" My answer usually is, "the same place as the good looking women." Brad Pitt is with Angelina Jolie and all is well in their world. And now back to us mere mortals...Do you really want that hunk? The one who stands in a corner, drink in hand and smug smile on face, waiting for the girls to approach him? Or do you want the guy who seems quiet because he's shy and uncertain and so will understand that;s how you are too! And that's a lot of understanding there :)

Here's my point! Stop for a minute, look at yourself in the eye and ask yourself, "do i want the guy every woman will run after? Or do I want the guy who will cherish me?"

My answer is simple! "I will look at the guy with the great bod and the tight tee, even drool a little...hell! Drool a lot! And then walk off into the sunset with the guy who puts and arm around me and makes me feel safe and loved. In fact, I will even love the little love handles and the bad hair cut...because nothing beats a nice guy!


12 comments:

  1. Well said
    the same thing could be said for the males,
    about the glamorous woman we are constantly looking for ;)

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  2. gud one varsha. ...

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  3. Nice girl writing about a nice guy!!.. :) Love it! so love handles are back in fashion!!.. No more 6 pack abs eh? :) Phew!! good to hear that!!! and yes..we guys also don't like Silicon and plastic!!!.. Be Au-natural!!

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  4. Okay! This is by far one post both guys and girls need to pay attention to. :)

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  5. I like to say "Nothing is more sexy about a man than his kindness"

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  6. Extremely relevant Varsha. All of us then to have unrealistic expectations. Time they were tamed!

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  7. Totally Agree with you Varsha!!!

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  8. kaash ke ye baat kuch ladkiyan samajti

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  9. Wow... Totally agree with you.. :-)

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  10. I agree with you woman. you are bang on

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